Part of me feels that the table may be set so to speak. Tiring to get h to watch spending and that includes how much spent going out. Wants to still go out to dinner 2 nights a week. Told him one night could be take out. We will see. This long history of him having the last word has to be changed. This is going to be a non negotiable for me.
H told me ow emailed him and asked how he was. He said he did not reply. Hope so.
Still spending money. Stopped at the bank 3 separate times mon and took out $60. Each time. Making huge credit card payments. I'm watching this week. I don't want to continue contending with the spending issues not to mention trust.
