Just to add some more info and the reason why I suspect it could be MLC: she had said in her very first email that "I had dreams and wanted a family". And a couple of months before I moved here she seemed dissatisfied with her job..said something like this is not what I want to do for the rest of my life. Was talking about her goals in the sense that they are unfulfilled but was vague. I asked her to clarify at that time but she didn't. Also while she was visiting for Christmas she said something to the effect of, if she could do it all over again, she would do things differently (regarding our marriage).
So she's 36. You know we start getting crazy when our biological clock starts ticking really fast. You know what people say about having kids before 35? I supported my H when he was unemployed for nearly 3 years but at the same time I was really frustrated and sad. Leaving him didn't even cross my mind because I didn't marry him for a baby but I gotta tell you I often felt overwhelmed. Once he got a job I ran at full-speed to get us pregnant. Too fast and look where I am now
Anyway, it's your life and you have to decide what's good for you but I'd take the job you mentioned especially since you say you've been struggling to find any. Why do you think she said its a bad idea? Why is it erratic? That's the only offer you currently have right?
You have got to stop emailing her or asking questions!!! You can't take back what you do or say later.
M37 H36 M8 T12 inc 3yr L-dist 7/12:H broke down 10/12:H dad D frm W4. BD soon after 1/13:H wants to leave 2/13:H gpa passed. Feels closer but H still leaving 3/13: S begins
If a woman says she wants a family, she wants a family. You probably didn't understand how serious it was getting for her because you we're younger and still are pretty young
M37 H36 M8 T12 inc 3yr L-dist 7/12:H broke down 10/12:H dad D frm W4. BD soon after 1/13:H wants to leave 2/13:H gpa passed. Feels closer but H still leaving 3/13: S begins
