Some of you know me and here is synopsis of the path so far:
September: Ask H if he is happy-he says "no" I say then he has to leave (note, he is already living apart from us M-F) I ask to work on marriage, he says he is done.
October: Ask if he is seeing someone else. The answer is no. Answer continues to be no until Mid-November when I find out he has been lying-for how long, don't know
November-December. Contact about kids and finances, some lawyer talk, D never on table, separated.
January: Through many emails and texts, we discuss the marriage, flirt a lot, make out a couple times, send racy texts, but generally good friends, except this friend still in love with H.
Expectations are too high, because as of three days ago, H went LC/NC. Sent email to him today saying I am happy to be co parent, I am happy to be a friend, but if you are cutting off contact for a reason I am unawre of, let me know. I will be fine with it, but I am not a mind reader.
He had been spending weekends out here, but now is back to just one day. Is avoiding me, my guess is he has stuff to figure out, but no mind reading so can't tell.
Those of you who followed me before, I know what I have to do, so am doing it. The email is for me to know, so I don't have to sit wondering. Obviously haven't detached, but need the info to go forward and detach, for me.
