Have a plan together for the mediator, at least get a list together, it will help you focus better. Keep annotating the list when you think of something, the better prepared you are the better you will be. Fear is your enemy. Shoulder's back and head high! One day at a time.
You can do this, focus on you!
M - 55 W- 49 S-19, D-16 Married - 24 Bipolar Dx - May 1996 #1 BD - Jun 2011 #2 BD - Feb 2012 #3 BD - Oct 2012 Reconnecting - Jan 2013
"I'm going off the rails on a crazy train!" - O. Osbourne
Everyone is suggesting the same thing...have a game plan. Know what you are asking for or not willing to give whatever it is.
Going in with anger (although totally understandable) is not going to help you or little sunny. Remember buddy, this is YOUR life. Be honest, firm and direct. No more no less.
So what is your plan?
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
Sunny Everyone is suggesting the same thing...have a game plan. Know what you are asking for or not willing to give whatever it is. Going in with anger (although totally understandable) is not going to help you or little sunny. Remember buddy, this is YOUR life. Be honest, firm and direct. No more no less. So what is your plan? Eric
I thought I told you my plan already - everything is decided
If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it. I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
Hey Eric - I haven't been on here since February - I am on the other side of the mountain - not all the way down - we are divorced - still in the house but we should be out by the middle of January - I disappeared because - as much as this place helped me - I thought that hoping for a reconciliation was not in my and my son's best interest -
I will post an update as soon as I can -
Love all you guys/gals !!!
Peace
Sunny
If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it. I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!
Sunny - if you get this...I hope all is well on your end.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
