Been doing 180 and wife is now in therapy????

[Hadrianus]

Hello all,

My wife has filed for divorce and I have been doing the 180 technique for a few weeks (we still live together). Just noticed that she wrote a check to a therapist a few days ago on our joint account.

Is this progress??? I hope so, but I'm not sure.

[Cadet]

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Have you read the 37 rules?

Welcome to the board

Get out and GAL.

DETACH.

Believe none of what she says and half of what she does.
Have NO EXPECTATIONS.
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SO post in small frequent posts until you get off of it.

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THE GIFT OF TIME.

USE it wisely.

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[Marco21558]

I would say that this is a good move in the right direction

[Marco21558]

I would say that this is a good move in the right direction

[AnotherStander]

My wife has filed for divorce and I have been doing the 180 technique for a few weeks (we still live together). Just noticed that she wrote a check to a therapist a few days ago on our joint account.

Is this progress??? I hope so, but I'm not sure.

It's probably not progress, it's not unusual for WAS's to seek out IC mainly so they can have someone tell them they're doing the right thing. Unfortunately most counselors will do just that, they see their job as validating whatever their client wants to do.

Stick with your 180's and settle in for a long haul, it takes months and months before a WAS will start to appreciate 180's as real and not just tricks to earn them back.