Some progress after 2+ months of DBing

[Wendylon]

I'm starting a new thread.

Here is the link to the last thread that covers my first two months of getting back into DBing after a period of around seven years of backsliding:

Back to Square One?

I think that the sitch is definitely progressing but I need to keep at it. I'll list the positives soon but must get to bed now.

[tori2012]

Hey, Wendylon. Good idea to start a new thread. However, you have to paste the link again, bc the one you have now seems to not be working.

Also, good idea to see what has and hasn't work after your 2 monhs of DBing. If we put things in perspective, 2 months isn't much at all. So if you have seen some progress (which I know you have) then that's great news.

[MKB23]

Glad you started a new thread! I'm curious what all happened while I was away!

[ForeverYoung]

Previous thread: Back to Square One

[mamabird]

Wendy, in response to your question about neutropenia... I am actually quite interested in health but I'm not in the medical field. My sister is an oncologist though, and I am a breast cancer survivor. When I was doing my chemo I had to have shots of Neupogen to prevent neutropenia.

I had actually heard of this before that when I was in business school - one of my colleagues worked for the company that makes Neupogen and for some reason they were doing a presentation on it and the whole thing stuck in my brain.

Maybe it's not available in the UK but there is definitely a drug out there for this. You should ask your consultant about it. Neupogen is the trademarked name, it's made by Amgen.

[Wendylon]

Thank you very much, FY, for linking properly to my last thread. I guess I'll try it again when I've reached 100 posts on this one.

Thank you, Regretful, for the medical info. I'll definitely look into it.

H has gone to the cinema with S17 and D15 and I'm here with S13 who has just cut his thumb with a knife while I was on here so I'll get him settled.

Overall, good day today. The time H and I spent together was companionable and he definitely seems less 'allergic' to me--not in such a rush to get away from me.

[Wendylon]

I'm feeling a bit stressed as H is out at an IT seminar that is being held at the communal workplace where he first met POW. He's also said he's really busy this week and that he won't be around much.

I just saw him v briefly this morning. He asked if I was feeling depressed which took me off guard because I didn't think I was acting depressed or anything but then remembered that he's assuming that I'm off the ADs.

He did text me this evening to say that there were only 3 people taking the class. I'm worried that POW is one of them.

There is nothing I can do about it. I just need to carry on with GAL and being the wife that only a fool would leave...

[StubbornDyke]

Remind yourself that H does in fact respond positively when you're doing all the good DB things you're supposed to and keeping a positive attitude. Keep smiling and he'll wonder what you're up to!

[afa75]

So happy to hear of your success Wendy,
Keep doing more of what you're doing; and with a smile. .

[MKB23]

Yes he does respond positively and he has been reaching out. Continue to be the better option! You CAN do this. Nothing you can do if she is there. Just keep on the same course.