what to do now I messed up being detached

[linz1822]

so i was doing good . we are separated living in different states i still love him this is all him walking away.

i have been so good about not being needy, saying i love you or anything it is hard to get a life back home at parents no job, no money coming in trying to find one feel like in limbo don't know if i should be treading water or moving on completely.

so sad all the time.

he had been calling every day then i went to visit new york was suppose to stay with him but he went mia so only saw him 4 day of 7 (jerk on his part since this was originally his idea) we slept together then he massively pulled away the next day.

didn't call for 5 days called once he said he was confused which i told him was fine but he didn't get to treat me like some girl he slept with and didn't want to call i am his wife and deserve better
last friday was his birthday called him to say happy birthday ended up saying I miss you wish i was there. and I love you

all no-nos i know haven't heard from him since. Now what do I do?

Lindsey
m: 32
h:33
no kids

[AnotherStander]

Please stick to one thread for now, it makes it easier to track your sitch and see what advise others have posted to you. Your main thread is here:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...531#Post2292531

You might want to copy/ paste your post from here into the main thread.