....long story made really short....she gave me the love you but don't love you speach a month ago...she asked for some space which I was willing to give her but found a message on her phone from a guy "friend"...she reassured me at the start of this that there is no one else but the message he sent about how he wants to tell her all the time how he loves her...kind of changed how I think she feels of me...not sure how deep this actually is....I mean it's just one message that I read from him...my question is do I comfront or do I still give her the space to sort her feelings for me...at this point it's an emotional affair...I know that for a fact as she would never have been able to connect with him directly without my knowledge...just want to make sure I move carefully in this mine field...I deeply love her and I'm sure that she loves me but is very confused with her thoughts and feelings..thks...as my title says...Lost guy....Little more info of subject..sorry for the point format ..I'm 42 as is she ..dated 3 yrs ..married 16 ..three kids(14-12-10) ..health issues with constant bladder infections since birth of last child ..VERY focused on her looks..always has been..looks like a million bucks, but never has been happy with it...
