ih ave said a number of times that if i can save my marriage that is my number one goal. I know I contributed to our problems by not having a job and being in a funk but I am working on starting a tee shirt line with a friend now and have retained 2 clients for my marketing public relations firm which is only going to equal like 1000 but it is a start.
way better then i was.
I was depressed kind of sitting around just watching tv. now i am always on the go.
If only we were in the same city.
anyone else trying to db long distance any advice
m: 32 H:33 T:7 M:4
7/12 says he might want out 8/12 find out about ow he wants a D 9/12 he says he loves me not here wants me back 9/12 he pull away 11/12 still separated
i did but do best with real world examples thanks for the advise tori
m: 32 H:33 T:7 M:4
7/12 says he might want out 8/12 find out about ow he wants a D 9/12 he says he loves me not here wants me back 9/12 he pull away 11/12 still separated
hard week no real contact brief conversation on friday which i will admit i called him in the morning i couldn't take it i miss him and wanted to talk to him and it had been a week.
i am used to talking to him 8 times a day on the phone until he gets home.
i did have a great time out with my friends last night. except when i had to tell a few of them about the separation still haven't figured out a way to say it without crying every time it is like i say the word and the cry voice comes out.
I am praying and trying my best to deal with the depression and move on for the time being why praying to God that he restores this marriage.
m: 32 H:33 T:7 M:4
7/12 says he might want out 8/12 find out about ow he wants a D 9/12 he says he loves me not here wants me back 9/12 he pull away 11/12 still separated
so he called to tell me my part of the bonus he was receiving it just seems like he is really detached and distant the last few weeks we were doing so well then nothing. I don't know what is going on. He said at the end of the month just go in my account and take out the money.
like he wasn't planning on talking to me again.
I feel like i am owed a conversation i mean we slept together two weeks ago he told me he was confused then disappears on me. I am not some girl from a bar i am his wife.
m: 32 H:33 T:7 M:4
7/12 says he might want out 8/12 find out about ow he wants a D 9/12 he says he loves me not here wants me back 9/12 he pull away 11/12 still separated
so my temp job keeps asking me about about how things are going with my husband. what we are doing for the holidays he has asked for a divorce then we talked about reconciling then he just dropped it this is all hard enough without being asked for a daily update from strangers.
i want to talk to him about it abut i don't know if that is not dbing or not any advice
m: 32 H:33 T:7 M:4
7/12 says he might want out 8/12 find out about ow he wants a D 9/12 he says he loves me not here wants me back 9/12 he pull away 11/12 still separated
okay update it feels like we are moving toward more final and not less He got his bonus yesterday and i took my part of it we talked and he said he might want to sublet out our place to save money which i agree to when we moved to nyc we didn't have the money for a deposit so my dad gave us the money.
I have been trying really hard now to engage in any drama or push him away in anyway. but my dad was mad and said there was no way he was going to let him sublet and be left holding the bag. to go in and get his money back right now. so i did because i don't know what to do i am making dollars a hour and staying at his house why i get back on my feet.
what am i suppose to say so i took the money and called my h to let him know he flipped out said he been thinking about getting back together but now it was done he was going to get a expensive divorce attorney and fight me on it. etc. etc. then he said he had been thinking about paying for the divorce in full which makes me feel like he was emotionally manipulating me to get the money back i don't want to push him away
but i also don't want to be stupid and leave my self in a financially bad place. he hadn't really talked to me in 2 weeks before all of this. he's been going out every night i mean i feel bad that he says he needs the money but he makes six figures i am the one who got dumped without a job because i moved for him and really has no money.
no one told him to go out and spend a [censored] load at bars once i left. I really love I'm though and want to be with him i don't know what to do.
m: 32 H:33 T:7 M:4
7/12 says he might want out 8/12 find out about ow he wants a D 9/12 he says he loves me not here wants me back 9/12 he pull away 11/12 still separated
