So the wife is WAW. She made the comment if you and the kids really love me you will still love me if I move out. How can you answer this? I do love her more than anything in the world but the pain of her moving out and seperating will change everything. How can I say that I will still love her the same? I am trying to detach the best I can but I feel like I am being fake when you love someone so much. I know the 180 plan is for me but it is so hard somedays. Any advise would be appreciated.