Me-38W-28. M-2 1/2. Together-7 years OM-14/4/12 Told M in trouble-17/4/12 BD-5/6/12 S-5/6/12 ProofOM-17/06/12 Start to change me-31/08/12 EA+PA-14/04/12-now
I am glad to hear that...a little more peace for you...that is great...hang in there..I bet you get a lot of songs in your head what kind of music do you play?
Had to watch our dogs over night 2 days ago. Pretty bad experience having to walk back into the marital home made 100 times worse by finding sex stained sheets.
That was a bad day am still recovering from but it does show me am not as strong yet as I'd like to be. Still having rough days.
Music wise I perform what I call "drinking music". Songs from 50's right through to today. Good old pub songs. It's been hard performing as most songs I do have some connection to relationships or something along they lines. Ya know what I mean.
Still surviving though.
Kevin.
Me-38W-28. M-2 1/2. Together-7 years OM-14/4/12 Told M in trouble-17/4/12 BD-5/6/12 S-5/6/12 ProofOM-17/06/12 Start to change me-31/08/12 EA+PA-14/04/12-now
oh that is hard...why did you go into the bedroom...I want to go in my W house and search for evidence but so far I have not...she says she is not seeing anyone and I don't know but dwelling on it only makes matters worse..maybe you misinterperted what you saw...stay away...it only makes you worse off...
Naw no misinterpretation. She confirmed it by making out it was my fault. Amazing huh. My fault she had sex in our house in our bed. She said since I hadn't helped her with trying to sell the house she had to ask soneone so she asked him.
I went into the bedroom cause I knew what I'd find.
Me-38W-28. M-2 1/2. Together-7 years OM-14/4/12 Told M in trouble-17/4/12 BD-5/6/12 S-5/6/12 ProofOM-17/06/12 Start to change me-31/08/12 EA+PA-14/04/12-now
hey one more thing...well two more things. I was ready Michel's book divorce remedy and this stood out...that don't give up because she is in a relationship..the chemicals ware off in six months and then she will be back to square one again wondering what happened.....And the other is you have to examine yourself and see if you are happy..do what makes you happy...also can you learn some new songs or write some songs? You need to detach again...hang on....we are all with you....
Hey how are you doing today? I was thinking about what happened to you the other day and I am sorry that happened to you...what kind of woman would do that? What if you did something like that? What would it mean? Not a lot of self-respect I am afraid...but anyway..take care of yourself these next couple of days...
@7720, re. the chemicals ware off in six months and then she will be back to square one again wondering what happened
I wouldn't be too sure about that. My wife's affair started in February. It's eight months later now, she has moved in with OM and our kids, no sign of a return. My time horizon is 3-4 years.
Music wise I perform what I call "drinking music". Songs from 50's right through to today. Good old pub songs. It's been hard performing as most songs I do have some connection to relationships or something along they lines. Ya know what I mean.
Hey mate! I totally see what you mean. I'm in the same boat and every time I go through my repertoire, it feels like it's aimed directly at my W. Sometimes I wish she walked in the bar where I play when I'm singing stuff like "I'll Stand by You" by the Pretenders, or "Love of my Life" by Queen. I always nearly crack up in tears at the end of "Everybody Hurts" by REM. It's been good for my interpretation though. People comment that I sing these songs like I mean them.
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then
