As far as meeting women. My job as a musician lets me meet lots of women and I've always had women chatting me up so am not too bothered about meeting women.
Me-38W-28. M-2 1/2. Together-7 years OM-14/4/12 Told M in trouble-17/4/12 BD-5/6/12 S-5/6/12 ProofOM-17/06/12 Start to change me-31/08/12 EA+PA-14/04/12-now
Oh well forget what I said...then..sounds like you are doing some of the same things I am doing. I wait for her to call and then respond way to fast and too eager. One thing I am also trying to figure out is when my W has her period...she is a huge B on those days...and I find myself trying to figure out what is going on with her etc...then I realize...it is more than a cliche. Do what ever gets your mind off her...I think that is the only way to heal...otherwise it is like a wound that you keep picking at making it fester...
Am starting to use a lot of my N/A stuff now. One day at a time all that basic stuff. Am treating my wife like a drug or a drink and keeping away from her day by day lets me recover and get stronger.
Keep in touch 7720. Let me know how your getting on. It's a long road but its good to have people sharing the journey.
Me-38W-28. M-2 1/2. Together-7 years OM-14/4/12 Told M in trouble-17/4/12 BD-5/6/12 S-5/6/12 ProofOM-17/06/12 Start to change me-31/08/12 EA+PA-14/04/12-now
It is weird how one day you can be feeling o.k and then the next day or so you feel like you have been hit in the gut. I guess it goes to the feelings of loss...yesterday I was in the anger stage at her...which is hard because I end up being short with my kids.
I've noticed when I get angry it's me that ends up feeling worse.
Me-38W-28. M-2 1/2. Together-7 years OM-14/4/12 Told M in trouble-17/4/12 BD-5/6/12 S-5/6/12 ProofOM-17/06/12 Start to change me-31/08/12 EA+PA-14/04/12-now
Yes you are very right anger does not help....I am trying to think back to how I got my S in the first place...it definitely was not persuit...she made the first move...and I just have to wait it out...she is so co dependent..I wonder if your S is as well moving from R to R is a sign..
Moving from R to R in my opinion just shows how much of a coward she is.
Me-38W-28. M-2 1/2. Together-7 years OM-14/4/12 Told M in trouble-17/4/12 BD-5/6/12 S-5/6/12 ProofOM-17/06/12 Start to change me-31/08/12 EA+PA-14/04/12-now
I've turned a corner as far as my sitch. Letting go is something that's helped me.
Me-38W-28. M-2 1/2. Together-7 years OM-14/4/12 Told M in trouble-17/4/12 BD-5/6/12 S-5/6/12 ProofOM-17/06/12 Start to change me-31/08/12 EA+PA-14/04/12-now
yes what happened? I feel like sometimes I let go but then other times i feel like i have not let go....daughter called tonight crying wanting to see me but i don't want to see her...
