Been separated on/off since June of 2011, I found out about the other woman in December 2011. In January we tried to reconcile but he kept in touch with her and moved out confused thinking they were meant to be.
Over the past few months he's been on the fence. Back in June he even wanted to return. Then he saw her and changed his mind again. Since I lost my mind on him, I know I know detrimental, he has been very stand offish. They practically live together now. I've tried it all. He does not say he wants to divorce he is just so on the fence and I am so frustrated. When push comes to shove he always chooses me but this time I am wondering if we might really be done. Any advice on how to stop sabotaging myself and actually making progress on getting my husband to come home? This is a long story so ask any questions to make this more clear... I am sure I left so much out of the explanation.
WS moves out 9/11 OWH DD#1 12/11 FR#1 1/12 DD#2 2/12 WS leaves 4/12 WS tries FR#2 6/12 WS/OW move in 7/12 WS leaves OW 9/12 WS back with other OW 12/12 Said OW demanding we D 5/14/13 WS files divorce 8/28/13
