Just about half way through the book. Not sure I even have answers on how to fix things, I have been working on me for a few years. We have been separated for those years, he having an affair, I think it's over. It was in response to my affair. This is our 19th year of marriage, I won't to figure out how to put my family back together, four kids, two still home. We are in a bad way financially and he seems carefree about kids, bills, college all of it. Any advice? i also send way too much time thinking of how I hate his mistress
