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Living for ME #2260729 07/08/12 11:04 PM
Joined: Apr 2012 Posts: 714 South Dakota H heartbrokeinsd OP Member
OP heartbrokeinsd Member H Joined: Apr 2012 Posts: 714 South Dakota	guess its time for a new thread. stuff is changing, mainly me. figure i still need guidance and feedback as i am still very new to alot of this. i like journaling where i am at and helping when i can. old thread: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2256800#Post2256800 m:31 W:32 M:8 T:11 S:10 D:5 Bomb:1/07/12 Separated:4/23/12 Divorced: 12/12/12

Re: Living for ME heartbrokeinsd #2260744 07/08/12 11:53 PM
Joined: Jun 2012 Posts: 108 Sunman, IN J Jessica M. Member
Jessica M. Member J Joined: Jun 2012 Posts: 108 Sunman, IN	I'm glad you are living for you! I am trying to do the same thing! Me:29; W:37 T: 6 M: 4 D: 2; SD: 14; SS: 17 H filed D: 6/13/12; H moved out: 6/14/12 H moved back in: 6/28/12 Confirmed EA: 8/12

Re: Living for ME Jessica M. #2260748 07/09/12 12:17 AM
Joined: Apr 2012 Posts: 714 South Dakota H heartbrokeinsd OP Member
OP heartbrokeinsd Member H Joined: Apr 2012 Posts: 714 South Dakota	thanks.. it took me a long time to get here. i will have my down days. i am tryin this no expectation thing and looking for positives in every situation. you can get there, if i did. i am sure of that! =) m:31 W:32 M:8 T:11 S:10 D:5 Bomb:1/07/12 Separated:4/23/12 Divorced: 12/12/12

Re: Living for ME heartbrokeinsd #2260756 07/09/12 01:18 AM
Joined: Nov 2011 Posts: 9,676 Sonoran Desert L labug Member
labug Member L Joined: Nov 2011 Posts: 9,676 Sonoran Desert	I just have to say-a long time: Registered: 04/17/12 But congratulations on getting there. Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13 Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss

Re: Living for ME labug #2260763 07/09/12 01:58 AM
Joined: Apr 2012 Posts: 714 South Dakota H heartbrokeinsd OP Member
OP heartbrokeinsd Member H Joined: Apr 2012 Posts: 714 South Dakota	ok..not that i am mad or anything. i have been going thru this crap for almost 3.5 years.. bad then good bad then good. it got bad again last october and worse in a hurry. i found this site in april yes. after finding the DR book at the library. i didnt come here till i tried th book for about 2 months with no good results. i have not been at it as long as others and thats ok with me. please do not try to tell me what a long time is. that is something i figure out for myself. i am where i am, because i want to be. i am not mad bug. really. funny thing is..i stick up for myself again. i know my journey. it is taking a fork right now. we will see where it leads. as always, thank you so much for being here for me. you have helped me so much! m:31 W:32 M:8 T:11 S:10 D:5 Bomb:1/07/12 Separated:4/23/12 Divorced: 12/12/12

Re: Living for ME heartbrokeinsd #2260775 07/09/12 02:18 AM
Joined: Nov 2011 Posts: 9,676 Sonoran Desert L labug Member
labug Member L Joined: Nov 2011 Posts: 9,676 Sonoran Desert	Why would I think you're mad? Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13 Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss

Re: Living for ME labug #2260781 07/09/12 02:22 AM
Joined: Apr 2012 Posts: 714 South Dakota H heartbrokeinsd OP Member
OP heartbrokeinsd Member H Joined: Apr 2012 Posts: 714 South Dakota	just makin sure..i kinda get fed up with people sayin i havent been at it long enough or whatever. i heard that in aa when i was younger too. because my story isnt the same as someone elses, doesnt mean it is any less important. i know you dont pass judgement. just wanted to make sure that i wasnt being a jerk. no worries m:31 W:32 M:8 T:11 S:10 D:5 Bomb:1/07/12 Separated:4/23/12 Divorced: 12/12/12

Re: Living for ME heartbrokeinsd #2261014 07/09/12 06:56 PM
Joined: Apr 2012 Posts: 714 South Dakota H heartbrokeinsd OP Member
OP heartbrokeinsd Member H Joined: Apr 2012 Posts: 714 South Dakota	i got served D papers today. she gets temp custody unless i sign her agreement. i told her L i wasnt signing anything before i talk to a L. i cant afford one. i tried. her dad paid for hers. i lose...so much for hope. whatever...my kids are who suffers because she is a rude, petty selfish person. m:31 W:32 M:8 T:11 S:10 D:5 Bomb:1/07/12 Separated:4/23/12 Divorced: 12/12/12

Re: Living for ME heartbrokeinsd #2261018 07/09/12 07:16 PM
Joined: May 2012 Posts: 1,108 B Brit45 Member
Brit45 Member B Joined: May 2012 Posts: 1,108	why are you giving up....I don't know what time it is where you are there are free legal aid places that you can call or go to now and get advice....is this the pitbull or whatever guardian animal you decided you were previously? Are you going to roll over and decide she wins because she's mean? it's your choice of course..but the Dakota I know doesn't do this...

Re: Living for ME Brit45 #2261024 07/09/12 07:27 PM
Joined: Apr 2012 Posts: 714 South Dakota H heartbrokeinsd OP Member
OP heartbrokeinsd Member H Joined: Apr 2012 Posts: 714 South Dakota	she hasnt won..not yet m:31 W:32 M:8 T:11 S:10 D:5 Bomb:1/07/12 Separated:4/23/12 Divorced: 12/12/12

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