Divorcebusting.com  |  Contact      
Previous Thread
Next Thread
Print Thread
#2256924 06/24/12 02:00 AM
Joined: Jun 2012
Posts: 108
J
Member
OP Offline
Member
J
Joined: Jun 2012
Posts: 108
My WAH filed for divorce about a week and a half ago. I can't afford the house (we rent) and am looking to rent an apartment close to the job I just found.

Should I stay in my house until the divorce is final?

He was staying at his mom's and then got a bonus at work so he was at a hotel for a week. He'll be back at our home next week because we are working opposite shifts and it's too hard for him to be there early enough if he's staying somewhere else. But then he'll be on vacation. Not sure what the best move is. Not legally since if we end up divorced financially I'll have to move but in terms of saving my marriage.

Thanks!


Me:29; W:37
T: 6
M: 4
D: 2; SD: 14; SS: 17
H filed D: 6/13/12; H moved out: 6/14/12
H moved back in: 6/28/12
Confirmed EA: 8/12
Joined: Nov 2009
Posts: 13,554
Likes: 89
C
Member
Offline
Member
C
Joined: Nov 2009
Posts: 13,554
Likes: 89
Originally Posted By: Jessica M.
Should I stay in my house until the divorce is final?

You should do what is best for YOU.
Where you live is not going to save your marriage.

Make the changes for YOU.

What do you want and what is best for YOU?

That is what may save your marriage.
You being the BEST that you can be.


Me-70, D37,S36
Joined: Jun 2012
Posts: 108
J
Member
OP Offline
Member
J
Joined: Jun 2012
Posts: 108
Good advice thank you. My plans have actually switched around in the past couple days so I have a lot more to think about.


Me:29; W:37
T: 6
M: 4
D: 2; SD: 14; SS: 17
H filed D: 6/13/12; H moved out: 6/14/12
H moved back in: 6/28/12
Confirmed EA: 8/12

Moderated by  Michele Weiner-Davis 

Link Copied to Clipboard
Michele Weiner-Davis Training Corp. 1996-2025. All rights reserved.
Powered by UBB.threads™ PHP Forum Software 7.7.5