I want to thank each person who has responded on this board to my situation. I'm sure each of you has been in this position at one time or another which results in the helpful advice. The only thing I beg for is to not give up on your responses. Every day, I repeatedly check the site for answers. It is such a let down to not have helpful words or encouragement for long periods. So many times it stops the roller coaster ride, even if only for a few hours.
Like today, my range of emotions go from it's better to get away from that crazy, uncaring, selfish lady who will probably keep hurting me..... to..... I'm a person who has strong Christian principles and beliefs about divorce, who is thinking of the negative effects on our own kids and future grand kids. I see her as sick and feel like I would be abandoning her when she was sick. When she gets well, she will be able to see clearly and we can "work on" or fix things.
Well now you know she lies. This is good as now you know how much you can trust her words. That was a race for her to save face. Nothing more nothing less.
Not the greatest thing to fully realize. But it is an important step for you. One to help with healing and expatiations.
This will help you.
Thought you may not see it yet.
Tough day today.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
Well, I found out she met with the attorney today. She or the attorney has yet to call me. I expect I will hear something tomorrow or Monday. At first, it knocked the crap out of me. Now I am OK. I am ready to go dark.
Notgivingupyet, I didn't know you had changed forums topics to this one. I've not been on much, will have to go back and read yours posts here. I just thought you hadn't been on either.
Me:53 W:50 M:29 years T: 30 years Children: S21, D12
robb, hope your doing well. I tried to message you but it won't let me. email me at tranger2@yahoo.com, I would love to have additional info on how yours is going.
