So this morning I login to my bank acct to pay some bills and I see a charge the W for a local hotel. So this tells me she did not go to LA. While I had feels she never went, my issue is that she knows money is tight and still spent money to stay at hotel. I want to tell her that she knows money is tight and she could have stayed here in the guest room but with the meeting we have for Monday(see first thread) I thinking should I wait to then, tell her now or stay dark about the whole thing?
M-41 W-41 D-7 M- 10yrs I still love you, but 4-25-12 Think she might have EA/PA 5-17-12 Confirmed PA 6-9-12
So I'm working on my GAL and took the D for a day at the pool, had a blast but now that I'm home I'm back to thinking about W and the OM. I know I should only thinking about working on me but it's hard. One minute I'm thinking about us being a family and wanting that more than anything and then the next I'm thinking how could she break our trust. I see that things I did might have pushed her to it and I'm willing to work on does things, but she still broke the trust. Maybe all these back and forth feelings are because the A is still going on and she lied to my face when I asked about it.
As I mentioned in my first thread I already taller to a L and he is sure that if I went for the D, I will not have any problem getting full custody but I want to spare my D as much pain as I can.
Also still not sure if I should bring up the A at our meeting on Monday or keep quiet for now since this is the first meeting where I'm not going to bring up the R.
Still lost.
M-41 W-41 D-7 M- 10yrs I still love you, but 4-25-12 Think she might have EA/PA 5-17-12 Confirmed PA 6-9-12
