I really don't have any advice to offer I just wanted to say my heart goes out to you. I know that punched in the gut crushed feeling and I'm sorry you're going through that.
Thanks guys fpr the messages - your support has helped me a lot. what a week. i know my H has been trying really hard to convince me things are differemt now, that he knows he wants me. but OW has turned up three times at his house telling him its not going to work, he doesnt love me and doesnt want to be married. he has told me about this so i believe he is trying to be honest with me.
i made a huge mistake though. on friday he asked me to go out and stay at his fri night. i agreed even though my gut was telling me it wasn't a good idea. we had a lovely meal, but too much to drink, and when we got back to his i got very upset and ended up going home. since then he has been very off with me, and has said nothing has changed (one of his complaints was we always seem to argue when we go out). i shouldn't have had anything to drink and now keep wanting to ask him for reassurance, which i know i cant do. also, she is still ringing him although he is saying he isn't answering.
