Husband (pilot) home from trip and away from OW (nasty 26 yr old flight attendant). I have all money and all bills and kids and house and pets and everything...He announces to me through a text that he wants $1100/month to live in someone else's house in a rented room out of our household budget! He is CRAZY!!!! What to do? Agree???? Validate???? He literally just WALKED out on us and left me with EVERYTHING. I do not work. I literally quit my job the day he left, refusing to make any money to fund this stupidity. Actually had DR sign medical leave for me because I cannot think straight...boss said better immediate resignation if not entirely sure will come back in 3 weeks. HELP!!!! Trying to go dark and validate and mirror everything else but this is really having cake, eating it too, paying for multiple households (we have a second home and a kid in college)....he is NUTS
Me: 44 H: 45 Married 22 S 18, S 16 Bomb 8/11, Second Bomb 1/12
