When a woman says she doesn't love you any more. (note: She didn't say, "I love you, but I'm not in love with you.") Is it a waste of time to wait patiently to see if she has a change of heart?
My wife moved out a month ago, and hasn't waivered any in her current position, of wanting to divorce. She's had a separation agreement drawn up, which I signed. And last weekend she gave me back her wedding rings. I know I'm not supposed to believe anything of what she says and half of what she does--and I know this is where patience comes in, but could this really be over?
Together 10 years, married 8 one daugther who's 3.
"Things are never bad; it's the way you think about them." -Epictetus
I was once a walk out spouse. I told my first husband that I didn't love him anymore and I moved out. I was feeling that way at that time, but I really didn't. And when I was moving out, he told me that he regretted marrying me. But he was feeling that way at that moment.
She is talking in the moment.
Just give her some time and space. Let her clear her head.
Thanks Hopeful. You live up to your call-sign (I'm now hopeful)
She left because we were having differences of opinion on a lot of things. I'm still the same person I was when we got married, but my views of the world have changed. Basically, I think it was we didn't invest in each other, we spent so much time focused on work and our d that we let our relationship take a distant third place.
When she told me she didn't love me anymore, of course i freaked out, and didn't give her sufficient space, so she made up her mind to leave.
It's getting easier to be without her, but I still miss having her around. But I keep trying to visualize her moving back in when her lease is up in June.
So I can just hope and pray that she will eventually feel love for me again, because I'm definitely worthy of it
"Things are never bad; it's the way you think about them." -Epictetus
