This may be the most awesome post I have read on here yet! C- very excited for you. Words just can't express. You have hope and you offer to those of us reading.
You are also wise in that you know the work will continue on. So very happy for you in this great turn of events. May the good mojo continue on!
Me:45, W:45 S:16 D:13 M:22, T:25 Bomb: July 2010 Putting finances in order for "D" Continue to live in same home-separate rooms
"I am not out of the woods, but I can finally see the light starting open up at the end of the trail. I hope I can make it there....slowly, but surely. I will say this - listen to the people on this board and don't give up until YOU think it's time. It appears divorce busting just might have worked in my case. Or at a bare minimum it CERTAINLY has carried me farther in a positive direction than I EVER would have made if left to my own, foolish ideas. I am still striving for that moment when my W and I are "OK" again - but I think we are on our way to getting there."
I think you nailed it ^^^^. Without DB, I think we'd all be in a much different place.
Continued best wishes, Crimson!
Me51 W53 S17 S14 M22 T25 Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11
It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife
Crimson...I am so wildly happy for you and your family...you all deserve this so much...god bless brother...you are one true inspiration about strength
I'm sitting here and tearing up. I'm so happy for the positive movements in your DBing. How exciting it must be to date your W again! You're doing so amazing and how you responded during MC is great!