Quote: Hope H will open up and share feelings or thoughts about session.
I had hoped he would too...but says that he didn't tell the c anything that he hasn't told me..that he would like to see him again...not sure if he is willing to see him together but did mention that obviously that is c's goal. h is not a very expressive person..we each could experience the same thing I could tell you about it and it would be 10 pages where h's telling would be a paragraph. that is not always a bad thing. after all as h pointed out...it's only 50 min...I will look at the fact that he wants to go again as a possitive and let the fact that he didn't have a whole lot to say about it go.
was going to get my hair cut today...but got a call the appointment cancelled and rescheduled for tommorow (one of her dd's is sick) I said ...bummer..I wanted to go get pretty today...h said..your already pretty..also pointed out that tommorow would probably be better anyway...as today we are expecting snow!!
so another day in the house with the kiddos...I can't find my broom and the floor is a mess...sheesh!! where could the broom have gone off too???
Good attitude. Look at the positive side of the sitch. h went to C and wants to go again. H said you're pretty (he'd have to be blind not to notice that!).
Enjoy your day. Hope we don't get too much snow as I have to go to RI.
Quote: I wanted to go get pretty today...h said..your already pretty
LL, Thanks so much for your support this morning. I woke up agonizing, but I feel so much better now. Feel like I have a good plan, and it takes the pressure back off me (I know, I only put it there myself!)
About your travelling broom, that gets a bit better as the kids get older and stop moving stuff! I had friends over last weekend with their two year old - she's a sweetheart, but she moved all kinds of stuff everywhere! I forgot what it was like when they were so little.
so it's going to snow..actually where h is it has already started and it's going to be a fast and furious one...already a 100 car pile up on one high way causing a shut down.
so h will be out plowing some areas now (getting a private road ready for the storm) and will do the driveways when it ends. h is down one man as he is away on his honey moon..but things should go ok. (I hope he doesn't plow ow's drive..things have been going well we don't need him sucked back in there)
h won't be home til after son goes to bed...we will eat left overs but I offered to make h a pot of chili to have when he gets in from plowing..he thought that was a great idea and thanked me.
so that's that today...what will LL do with herself this evening??? I had better start reading my book club book...I am famous for waiting til the last minute and barely fininshing it.
ok so LL is a big dwadler...didn't do much of anything this evening..but did manage to have both kids in bed by 7:30 gotta love that!!! h has called several times today just to say hi and chit chat...(good H!!!) h had called at 8ish when heading in for a break...I had planned to take a bath and get to bed early but ended up just wathcing tv by the fire and checking the puter from time to time...asked h if he would like me to call him round 10 (when I had planned to go to sleep) to make sure he hadn't fallen alseep and to say goodnight..h said ok...I got side tracked and didn't call...at 10:10 the phone rings...it is h..calling to say hi...has just picked up his shoveler and there on the road..thought I might have fallen asleep..sounded up beat and goofy..we had made tentative plans to have a fondue dinner with another couple but haven't gotten a straight answer as to fri or sat night...I also have a gf who wants to get together on which ever night I am not busy. let h know that the w of the other couple isn't feeling well so the plans are still tentative..h says tell them to scratch it and we'll do it next weekend...that I should plan to go out tommorow night and WE'LL do something together on sat night as then he will be more awake for me. (who are you h??) so the conversation ended on a possitive note...h said he'd wake me when he gets home (estimated 2am ugh!!)
I cannot believe the difference in h since I called the lawyer... honestly I will admit there is a difference in myself as well...in calling the lawyer I stepped out of the drama (well a little) and took back my self.
I like the way things are going...but I am anxious to get to c WITH h.
It's ashame it took the possibility of you filing for D for your H to wake up and join you in the restoring your M. But at the same it sometimes takes that added threat to wake them up.
I am happy to see all the positives happening in your sitch since that happened. I pray that H goes into C with an open mind to restore the M.
Take Care.
PS - I have seen alot of positives in my sitch since V-day. H sent me an i/m earlier this week wanting to know when "we were doing lunch". That is the 1st since the 1st week of December. We had lunch yesterday and everything went fine.
Things seem to continue to move in the right direction. H is responding to you and that's what you want. Don't focus on how it happened just accept that it did.
LL, things sound great. Your H is coming out of cave to give you frequent calls to chit-chat, is acting goofy and upbeat, and even telling you you'll do something together on Saturday night. Wow!
