Seems W is no longer seeing OM. The meds seems to have leveled her out. W has been very attentive but not real initmate. W has said that she loves being with me, loves doing things together, loves me. But she won't give me any hugs or kisses or initiate any intimacy.
Its like I have a disease when it come to romance, initimacy and sex. It's like she doesn't want sex at all any more. When she does, it is like get it over with. Very sterile (not sure if sterile is the right word).
Our realtionship is basically great other than that.
What are non bipolar spouse to do when bipolar spouse does not want to have sex at all?
Is it driven by age, menopoause, or just the bipolar?
I yearn for her touch, a hug and kiss, intimacy or passion that we had in the early part of our relationship and marriage. I love my W very much, and she even tells me that she appreciates how much that I love her. But I feel like I am in love prison, no feelings from the other person.
How do I deal with the intiamcy and sex part of our relationship?
Has Michelle ever thought of publishing something that helps with those spouses who have spouse with a mental disorder such as bipolar? And how to divorce bust or deal with those situations to have a better marriage...
I am looking for direction, support, advice and help...
It would be very much appreciated. To those who have responded to my other posts thank you very much... You have been a big help
