Anyone heard from Denver or nine??

[ninelives]

just bumping this to the front. Denver wants to make sure people are talking about him. jk, letting peopel know that we are alive and well.

[~ kd ~]

It IS good to hear from you, 9... You and your sons have your own personal journeys to deal with on this, and I wish the best for you all...

[islander]

It's been a loooong time since i posted or even checked in an anybody...i had to leave the board and get myself together...which i did!!

I am not with my wife, nothing between us ever got better. I started living my life. I still see my stepdaughter, and my wife and I talk occassionaly.

I will never be with my wife again, and I am ok with that, better than ok. I really examined our R from the beginning, and we should have never gotten married to begin with. I realized that i always knew that we shouldn't be married...i just wasn't strong enough to admit it in the beginning...bf we were married. i am just as much to blame as my w for the sitch that I put us in...and i stress "I".

I finally got the job that I have been trying to get since i met my w...i feel good about myself...i decided not to date anybody through all of this, and now i'm ready and trying. i guess i just took this time to work on me. And i think i really did a good job too.

I was wondering about country, 9, denver, and figured this was a good place to post. everybody was great helping me through my sitch. i needed to leave this board to find myself...thanks to everybody that posted on my threads, and sorry i had to leave like i did

islander, aka Greg

[jbnati]

islander, I'm so glad you checked in. It sound like you definitely took the right route. I am really glad it sounds like you're doing reasonbly well.

Take care, man.

[hope2011]

Hi BITS,

I'm popping in and out of here. Just posted on the Piecing section. Trying to catch up with everyone.

[hope2011]

Apparently since I've been gone I missed some really big stuff. I'm so sorry for your loss, nine.

[♪CS♪]

islander! Good to hear from you man!

Great to hear you're doing well.

Peace brotha!

[Denver_2010]

Yes! Nice to hear from you Islander! I'm happy to hear that you are doing well. Really, you deserve it! We all do!!

Denver

[~¤DG¤~]

Islander-

I'm so happy you popped in.
I've been wondering how you have been doing!
It sounds like you are doing well.

[BeTheMan]

Since this seems to have turned into a place for oldtimers to check in.....Some days I can't believe I spent 6 years here (on and off) trying to save my marriage. If only I had spent those years saving ME. I finally did that in the last 6 months or so. The divorce will be legal very soon, and I have never been more content in my skin. I intend to start a new thread with the intention of letting newbies know it really does get better regardless of the outcome. But for now, I gotta go live my life!