Holy hell Oldtimer I had to look that one up!!! Very good point, I need to find more tech geeks to hang out with
I need to get Swashy on here to share his Match. Com experience with you. One girl used a ten year old picture and when they met she looked nothing like her pics....
Yep, I had a date like that. Old picture, also it was a pre-schizo break picture, lol. I actually left the date after paying (dutch) for my one beverage, walked around the block, and danced the night away in a bar with a live band. Also had a date with a very smelly guy with other unattractive "features." And had one with a mildly depressed, stuck, whiny, WAS who was a couple of years post-D.
But, there was also the date with my amazing brilliant funny handsome confident competent strong sexy H.
One thing is for sure, don't waste time being pen pals. Email, talk, set up a date. I would set up a date by the 4th contact for sure. And make it happen quickly.
What I've never seen is a strung out online dating thing that went anywhere. If you aren't going on a date quickly, you are being kept on the line as a back-up plan right from the get go. No thanks. It is also a HUGE waste of emotional energy and time to invest in a penpal R if you are looking for a romantic R. Just meet quickly, see how it goes.
My responses are very quick OT "Thanks for the email. All the best in finding someone special :)"... 26 times! I'm having second thoughts about the pumpkin though...that orange complexion, it's such a joyous colour! Actually, I think I just want her for her seeds so it's probably better to just leave things as they are. I want to remain a gentleman. Now, if she was a Squash I might have less self control!
I have had great success with online dating. Bigger fan of eharmony. Be patient. I met a fantastic girl. We dated for over a year. It recently ended. She wanted marriage "someday"
It either wasn't the right one or i just wasn't ready to tell someone something I wasn't ready for...
Anyway, i started online dating again. I have been having fairly good luck in finding women to date again.
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