We have never had any arguments and our marriage seemed perfect, we each allowed the other space to do what we wanted to do but were always there for each other and did many things together too.
In the past 2 years her mum was diagnosed with a terminal illness and died a few months later over Christmas. Since then her job was under threat, her dad found someone else, she got a promotion with more responsibilities, her dad's new GF moved in, her sister's relationship almost ended and her best friend (for which she was bride's maid) was jilted at the alter. Not forgetting the aniversaries of her mother's birthday, death and discovery of illness.
She also wlked away from her previous long term BF (4 years) after her grandad died many years earlier.
She has said that she doen't love me anymore and can't stay with me.
Counselling (3 weeks) did not help her and she has now decided that the problem was there before any of the above complications.
Does anyone have any ideas as to how I can try to meet her again? How to behave? What to say? Ask/not ask?
