So sorry for not checking in. For me, things remain the same. Living in different homes, but spending most weekends together. I'm kinda sick of this limbo. Actually, very sick of it. His birthday is this weekend and I am not sure what to do about it. Our dog died in Aug. and he stayed 10 days while we finally figured out what had to be done. For his birthday, I had a pic of the dog blown up and professionally framed, nothing to personal.
For the NEWBEIE...... please please please, take the gift of time. It is a percious gift, don't throw it away. While you and your spouse is in crisis, don't push AT ALL. Walk away, for now. Trust me!
me:51 H: 48 No kids together M:14 years seperated:Ask him to GET OUT 3/21/11 Piecing 09/14
So sorry to hear about your dog...its tough to lose a member of the family. I think that is a very thoughtful gift that will surely be appreciated.
Me: 35 Him: 43 Together: 19 1/2 years 1st Bomb (IDLYAM): March 2011 2nd Bomb (OW): April 2011 He abandons home/bills/everything: May 2011 He's bought a new house for OW: September 2011
