Haven't posted for awhile. Provisional hearing set for tomorrow. Sent long email to w yesterday. Doesn't matter. Nothing I say or do means anything to her. "I'm divorcing you". Won't talk about anything. Kids, finances, house, nothing. The loving compassionate woman I knew is gone. At least as far as I'm concerned. She was just rude and disrespectful and instead of talking, ran to daughters room. We are still living under same roof. She in the living room. House can't be refi. Live paycheck to paycheck. I told her being cold and rude didn't bother me because I know the real her is still in there somewhere. Otherwise I've not been txting or calling except for kids stuff. I think it's time to let her go. To let her experience what her decision will be like and the effect it will have financially and for the kids. My intention and my L's is to get 50/50 custody and pay no child support. In that way, I will keep the house. Otherwise can't afford it. Money that tight. I'm sure she will be calm, cool and collected in the hearing. My hope is my L will get her thinking with his questions concerning lack of effort to save M. Affair with OM. The effect this will have on our great kids. I just have to keep my cool under pressure of her L ?'s. Any advice out there?
