I'm Still Here Pt Deux

[paige40]

Am thinking of you DG. Lots of love. You are a strong woman and you have changed so much. You are on the right track. I wish we lived closer so we could cheer each other up! We have lots in common good and bad!

I am in a bad place myself right now. H is moving out this weekend. I am trying my best to be ok but it is not working. My boys are all excited going to stay at Dads on Sat. Great everyone is leaving me. House is going to be very quiet and weird.

[LearningPatience]

Hey DG, just catching up with you. It sounds like you made a nice set of goals for yourself. I agree that you should go to the wedding, alone, and be as stunning as you can be! It's not so bad, trust me

[~¤DG¤~]

H just sent me a text asking if I deactivated his debit card.
Um, our acct has been closed for over 4 months now.
WTF????

[paige40]

Did he just try to use it?? That is strange. Maybe just a reason to text?

[~¤DG¤~]

Idk if he tried to use it. Probably. I doubt it was just an excuse to text.

[Valeska19]

Did you guys talk about the account closing 4 months ago? I have a really hard time believing that he wouldn't use a card for 4 months.. unless maybe he opened a separate account. But again, why would he go back to the old account?

Strange indeed.

[~¤DG¤~]

It closed on it's own. I had transferred the funds into another acct in just my name (the funds were mine) and after several months with no activity or a balance it closed. It's just odd that he is questioning it now.

This is seriously the first time he has initiated any kind of contact in a good 2 months. I was polite in my answer to him, and didn't say anything else. I'm proud of myself for that, since one of my goals is to not contact him for any reason. If he does ask a question of relevance, then I will answer.

[~¤DG¤~]

Journaling---

I don't know why, but it bothers me that H contacted me today. Even though he didn't say anything really and just asked a question, it still bothers me. I am trying so hard to not think about him and then there he is.

I just want to forget about him.

[marcusko]

I'm praying for you DG. I'm in a bad place myself and couldn't agree more that it [censored] to have a broken heart. Hang in there. I don't know your whole story but will try to piece together from past posts.

Best,
markk

[a girl]

DG - I totally get where you're coming from. I don't like "unexpected" contact from my H, because the surprise of it causes an emotional reaction in me and I'm trying to avoid that.