Ask the WAW other man to quit seeing her??

[Lost_in_fl]

Hello all..
My waw wife of 7 years left two weeks ago and said she's done...
she moves into a rental house nearby on friday..
She is on at least trwo dating web sites and has been seeing another man since at least may/june..
I want to go ask him to stop seeing my wife.
Is this suicide?
Or would it show something of a bravery towards saving our life together?

[Truegritter]

Have you read Divorce Busting and/or Divorce Remedy?

Let me clue you in to something.

You are the bad guy right now.

And likely will be for a while.

I wouldn't give her more reasons to run to him or his defense.

What do you hope to accomplish by confronting OM?

Why is she leaving? What are her complaints against you?