Seems like a lot of new posters....Anyhow, H and I are still living apart. Still doing things together, going to resturants, having sex and he stays a few nights a week. All was going along just fine.
UNTIL last night. I was getting ready o go to bed and gave him a hug goodnight. He hugged back tight and I kissed him on his forehead. I finally said, "Why don't you ever kiss me back?" He didn't answer. After 3 times, he finally said, "I don't like to do that." Too odd, we was a huge huge kisser.
I didn't cry and still have not cried. Cannot explain it. His comment hit my heart in a way that maybe I needed it to.
me:51 H: 48 No kids together M:14 years seperated:Ask him to GET OUT 3/21/11 Piecing 09/14
Who knows why any of them do what they do. I doubt they know half the time. He!! sometimes I don’t know.
For me kissing is an intensely personal thing. It connects me. I read somewhere it makes some people feel vulnerable, especially the kisses we wish we were exchanging with our respective spouses. I know it is speculation, but perhaps he cannot open himself up enough right now.
Sorry you felt the need to post again, but it is nice to know you felt comfortable enough to.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
