My wife and I reconnected after a good several weeks of not really talking in person. We have been separated now for over 2 months (you can look at previous posts to get the jist of it. I don't know how to link). She has had an affair (mosty emotional and some kissing) is what she told me. I asked her straight out. Who knows ultimately, but I do believe her.
Anyways we were hugging and apologizing and then we just sort of got intimate again. It was great! It wasn't sex but, it was a lot more than kissing ;-)
What is the DB stance on something like this? Has this happened to anyone. I mean we are not really back together, but we are going to parenting counseling, that might open the door for marriage counseling. I am happy at at least the possibility.
So after this intimacy happened we both smiled and thanked each other. We didn't say much after that. Still I thought it was interesting that she didn't seem that guilty about doing it, now that she is doing it behind her new relationships (bosses) back.
It kind of made me laugh. Some might say it would cause more pain, yet I have been through such intense pain with all this that of course I was going to get intimate if she would go there. I don't know. All and all I think it was a positive. Any thoughts friends?
Don't take my thoughts as anything because I'm clueless. But at least it felt good huh. Don't get sucked into something bad for you. Enjoy it if you can do so without harm to yourself. And if it's something good all the better.
