I posted my sitch above and have a question about The Last Resort technique.
My DB coach made mention of the technique during our last conversation and I have another session Monday.
She stated that it may be time of a letter to start the last resort technique.
Anyone have insight of what this might look like. I have read the chapter in DR about the various techniques and this is mentioned. With my sitch and how my M is behaving, I feel this is my only recourse for me.
I want to save the M but can not with her behavior. I need to work on me!
Thanks for the advise.
M 38 W 50 S 9, D 6 T 12 M 10 W's 1st EA 4/2007 stopped after confront W's 2nd EA 6/2010 Separated 7/2010 I bomb dropped 7/2010 MC 2/2011 - 3/2011 W bomb dropped 4/2011 Nothing filed or done
It is a letter where you take ownership for your mistakes in your marriage. You also let you spouse know that you don't agree with getting a D, however you love them enough to let them go.
Here is a link to my first thread, where I listed my mistakes that went into my LR letter. It is the 7th post down. After reading it now, it is laughable, because my XW had me believing it. It was only her distorted perspective.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
