I think KLA is especially helpful for Piecers. Back together--this is when you really want to build your skills so you make it through rough bumps. Your children learn the skills by watching and hearing you and your spouse interact.
I would so love for Piecers especially to join me with KLA. We will build our skills together.
Keeping Love Alive is my favorite DB tool. First I went to Michele's live seminar, then I got the tapes. Many folks like to listen to them every year or so even after they have reconciled, I do the same thing. You can treat it as a relationship retreat.
Rather than getting 'advice' on your situation, you will be helped to learn to be a SOLUTION DETECTIVE for your own relationship.
Keeping Love Alive is very helpful if you are DBing on your own or if you want to build relationship skills with your partner. You'll have the benefit of your online support group.
We will start in September, so that gives you plenty of time to get the KLA materials if you don't have them.
It has been a couple of years since we have had a KLA group. Because she is committed to helping people bring more love in their marriages by building their relationship skills--Michele is offering a 50% (thanks, Michele!) discount to the folks who sign up for this online group. So let's take advantage of it--and reap the benefits of better relationships.
I think so, too, MNZ. It has been awhile, and most of what I see on the board is 'feeling' and 'opini on' advice versus skillset building, which is what DB is all about.
Also, my partner has a better skillset than I do, and it's slightly competitive to me (sorta kidding, sorta not). I'm getting more than I give right now, and I want to add some more.
We are not in danger, we are great. But, when you are a DBer and when you are successful, you want to keep it going. You NEVER want to go back.
Your moderators fit into those categories as well.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
