Ok so last night we had some 'together time' before going to sleep. He rolls over an says to me, "am I confusing you by doing this?" I, of course, told him "no" and confirmed my answer when he wanted to make sure.
So what do I take this to mean?
I'm wondering if he's confused by it all himself. But yet over the last three days the OW has been calling him while he's home and that hasn't happened for a long time. So he's let her believe that it's okay to do so. He made a comment a couple days ago about when he has to find a place to live. I know we're not supposed to believe what they say but his actions in letting her call when I have asked in the past that he not have her call while he was home go unnoticed. I don't know what to think.
Me: 41 H: 39 1 daughter born 1999 T: 21 M: 19 this July Discovered EA w/OW: 02/06/11
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