Ah... I see. I don't think that one really loves someone and then doesn't one day. Real love is a choice, and it's not one you undo. It's likely he's all caught up in the excitement of this new life. And of course, with us WAS's there is a need to villify our LB spouses just to keep marshalling through the tough work tearing away. (I'm making lists of the evil things my H has done, so I don't give in to the longing to hear his voice.) It may take time for your H to get perspective, but I'm certain he will eventually look back fondly.
