I need to apologize to you all. I have been selfish with my time and haven't been there to encourage or help anyone. That is not the type of person I am. I promise to be there for each of you. I did keep praying for everyone but still that is no excuse.
Life just happens! No worries - we all get a little deliquent now and again.
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
No apologies required buddy. Sometimes i think you try to hard to be there for everybody. Truth is , you cant especially with all the stuff you are going through.
Everyone of IMO, trys to help where we can and some have made a connection with specific people, especially ones with similar sitches but I dont think there is judgement here.
God knows we all have enough pain going on in our lives and adding guilt to it isnt necessary.
You are one of the good ones Brian,
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BITS M-46 W-42 M-16y T-19 y s10 s15 BombDec.19/09 Sep-F16/10 Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10 Recon July 5/10 PA foundOut- Oct 30/10 Mental HospNov/10 moved out Nov/10 Leg Sep Mar 15/11
Ah, forget the small stuff sweetie. If anyone understands how it is....it's the folks here. Besides, what's better than having a person praying for ya?
((hugs))
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
