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What are the stages to look out for


me:51
H: 48
No kids together
M:14 years
seperated:Ask him to GET OUT 3/21/11
Piecing 09/14
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From my experience I would say you are in piecing when both parties agree to be WORKING on the common goal of M.

To often one party(theLBS) thinks they are in piecing but the WAS has other thoughts.

A clear cut plan needs to be discussed.
MC, Schedules, commitment.....

Going out on a few dates with eachother is not peicing.

IMO


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I agree with Gr8.
Both working toward a relationship, and consitency of efforts on both parts.



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