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#2146131 04/11/11 01:01 AM
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ust an update, that says there is nothing to update.......

but i miss this connection

all things considered, i have had a good week

my son is doing a bit better (but that said, my h has been staying here at night)

work was fun this week as we had some great guests on our show

i went to see a friend of mine play at a small club in the west village

and the next another of my friends was recording a song in a studio a floor down from mine, at work, so i went to see him

these things are noteworthy, as normally, i would have opted for just going home after work

i am trying on a new set of rules for myself

so i hope everyone had a good week as well, i look forward to catching up a bit here

xo


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grr #2146132 04/11/11 01:09 AM
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Glad you posted! What are your goals right now?


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Great to hear from you!

Glad to hear you're getting out and fantastic news that your S is doing better. Hang in there grr!


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Good to see you Grrr...sounds like your hanging in there pretty well.

Glad your S is feeling better also.


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grr...you are one of the best. Never forget that.


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dmod - my goal right now is to find the me i was before i met him

i loved that person and she didn't need anybody to validate her or make her happy

oh yeah, and keep my son happy (but i guess that's always a mom's goal - isn't it?)


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That is a great goal grr...

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M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce
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Originally Posted By: grr
dmod - my goal right now is to find the me i was before i met him

i loved that person and she didn't need anybody to validate her or make her happy

oh yeah, and keep my son happy (but i guess that's always a mom's goal - isn't it?)

Grr, to place my comment in the vernacular of my former occupation “OutFlockingStanding!!”


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Way to go, grr. I like your style and I like the tone in your voice. Keep your head up, girl. You will make it one way or the other!

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Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...
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Glad to see you back around, grr! I think your goals are fantastic. Truly fantastic!


Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated
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