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John, with all due respect to Paper, keep doing what you are doing. you are right, she is still texting you. She will also test you here and there. Make sure you are who you want to be during all of this.


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oh one more thing after our argument saturday i said im done and for her to take care of herself. she came back a few minutes later and said you dont have to be like that


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when i ask her if there is a chance we can start seeing each other again she dosnt say no she says i dont know probably not lol


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well we talked again. she will not stop the divorce proceeding and says after its over we can do stuff with the kids but it would take years for her to even consider taking me back


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John, I've not kept up with your sitch, so this may not be entirely appropriate. You be the judge.

It seems to me she is very confident you are waiting on her. What can you do drop the rope so she can consider you're moving on?


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Need some help interpreting my wife she says if will be years before she considers taking me back what does that mean.


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I agree with JustStunned..you need to show her you have a life, and are moving on. See how she may change after this. Try your best and hang in there.


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well initially i left her alone for a while and she started coming around a little but i moved to fast and pushed her away. she says she thought we may work things out in the future but right now she doesn't feel like she should about her husband and says that if she felt like she should she would have missed me by now and asked me back but she hasn't. She says she doesn't miss me at all.


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she has gone from saying she didn't know bout putting the divorce on hold to saying no.


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