Definitely do not send it. This letter will just reinforce that you are not a threat.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
Definitely do not send it. This letter will just reinforce that you are not a threat.
Disclaimer: just my take and humble opinion here. These kinds of situations are tricky and I admittedly do not have first hand experience.
Men who go after married women are "predatory". They may ultimately justify themselves as being "in love" and that they "couldnt help it", but in most cases their own self-interest (pleasure) is overiding any sense of guilt or fear of getting caught or confronted (pain).
Depending on who this person is, he may be a strong personality competing for your W. If you ask for him to consider the damage he is doing, then you are coming from a position of weakness (begging/pleasding), and he will just lose respect for you and assume he is winning the "contest".
If he is a weak personality, he may actually be afraid of confrontation. If you plead with him this way, it will ease his fears of being confronted. Again he will lose respect for you.
In both cases, it will only do harm.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
Just received text from OM's W. She says she saw a picture of W, OM & D.
First, I am certain this is a lie. This woman is crazy. When I first contacted her she said she would not say I called. She told me she would say a lady named "Diana" called from OM's/W's work. Well, just a day later she was telling me how this "Diana" called as if she was real. She may even believe this made up character is real, IDK.
Anyways, even though I know she is just trying to cause trouble, it still p!sses me off! What a f'd up situation!!!
I can't believe my life has turned into this...
islander, if you need anymore assurance as to why contacting OM's W is a bad idea, I hope this is it.
BITS
Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
Just what you need in this effed up equation. OW just to add some more Drama to the academy award drama of the year.
Hang in there Country.
Block this woman somehow so you dont have to put up with her BS.
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