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..an argument I've seen used lately was "how dare you speak this way since you haven't saved your M"? Excuse me? If that was a valid argument, 99% of the veterans would have to quit posting.
Wow, that's demoralizing - 99% of the people here haven't saved their marriages?
M: 43 H: 44 M: 12.5 if the 5.5 year separation counts Bomb (I dropped it): Dec '07 H said finit: Jun '10 I moved on: May '13
I can tell you that from the people who were quoted in that and from that small sample the number is much higher than only 1% 'saved' their marriage.
99%? Kalni was just making a point.
And even if it was true, isn't your marriage worth seeing if you are the 1% exception?
Absolutely, I would want to be part of whatever the percentage is for saving my M.
Thank you for sharing this thread gr8 day 2b alive.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa