Well for those of you that have been keeping up with my stich you all know Ive been married 12 years two boys and separated 5 months without a word from my wife. Divorce papers have been filed. But as of this week communication has improved drastically even to the point of sexually charged conversations. A close friend of my wifes text me yesterday and said she had lunch with my beautiful wife and that she completely ignored her saying she was texting me. The friend went on to say i need to ask my w to go away with me for a few days and that my w had hinted to that to her. The friend also said my w cares deeply for me and misses me just doesn't wanna get hurt again and is scared we will fall back into the same ole rut.
Remember not to get overly excited. If you move in too fast you'll kill the attraction.
Where are you planning to go?
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
Great news, John! It will be hard not to run back, but you should walk slowly into this. Rushing back could cause a negative effect, but I do agree that you start to open the communication back with your W. I look at Bolt's threads as a great guideline. Him slowly getting back into it has really seemed to work in his sitch.
Me - 33 W - 33 S - 9 months M - 3 years T - 5.5 years Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY PA discovered - 1/18/11 PA began - 3/22/10 Separated
Rebuild the friendship first before you move the the romantic stage. If you move right into the romantic stage it will not work.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
