I thought that perhaps a lighter thread was needed here. Maybe something to take our minds off things a bit and try to find some humor in this mess we are all in.
So the question is, what strange or perhaps funny thing have you done since your S left?
For me, I have grown a beard. I haven’t shaved (expect for trimming neck, etc) since my W left. I always wanted to try to grow a beard; I even started one over the holidays and then got cold feet. But when my W left, I said screw it and began to grow it. I am digging it, I work in a professional environment so I have tried to keep it trimmed and clean looking. No one has complained, so I am keeping it going for a while.
So what do you have? Anything?
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
Lets see: I bought a piano. Hey i have not turned on the TV once after my wife left (could not take those happy families they show on TV). My media diet has been netflix. I now shave once a week rather than once in 2 days. My favorite. I now eat my food on the bed(never did that in 11 years!).
BITS M 38 W 36 D 7 Married 15 yrs W left for 6 months in 2009 W Filed for D 01/03/11 piecing now...
I thought that perhaps a lighter thread was needed here. Maybe something to take our minds off things a bit and try to find some humor in this mess we are all in.
So the question is, what strange or perhaps funny thing have you done since your S left?
For me, I have grown a beard. I haven’t shaved (expect for trimming neck, etc) since my W left. I always wanted to try to grow a beard; I even started one over the holidays and then got cold feet. But when my W left, I said screw it and began to grow it. I am digging it, I work in a professional environment so I have tried to keep it trimmed and clean looking. No one has complained, so I am keeping it going for a while.
So what do you have? Anything?
HA! Good question Country!
Me? Eyebrows waxed! LOL... Didn't really need it, but W had always told me that it would make me look more clean cut... I never wanted to... Now she's teasing me that it took her leaving me to get me to do it!
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
Wow! I bought the personal trimmer and got rid of the uno brow and nose hair. Made me feel good about myself. Now I need to get rid of some of the grey hair on my chin!
Me 44 W 38 M 18 D 18 D 13 Bomb 10/21/2010 Divorced 7/19/2011 Just getting to the 7th inning!
I began watching old northern exposure reruns. Saw an episode in college and thought I would like the show. I remember my parents watching it when it was on
Since my S left: I sleep 5 hours consistently, doesn't matter when I go to bed. I seldom watch movies or TV anymore. I am more active. I bought all new sexier lingerie, new clothing ( I lost at least 5 sizes and still losing). I wear more jewellery and perfume and makeup. I colored my hair a wild fun color and got a new hairdresser. I have more fun on the weekends. I enjoy my kids more and they me.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.
