Im sure everyone had read my stich. I recently heard from one of my wifes friends that she wants me to find another women. Are these words true or what does she really mean by them.
My first thought for your question was...you having another woman would bring on anger from her, and anger is so much easier to deal with than being hurt. It also would ease guilt she might have...
That is JMHO. If you don't want to find someone else, then don't.
Me:35, 2 kids from PR H: 37, 2 kids with me T: 15 years M: 8 years in Feb. Second walk out: 14-01-2011 H had PA: 2007
John170: My W tells me the same thing. She said that she'd be happy if i ever re-married and was happy with someone else.
At that moment i was lil angry, but later when i thought about it might be that she might be going through a guilt phase...or it might mean that she's totally done with me. To keep my sanity, i am gonna believe the former and go with it
BITS M 38 W 36 D 7 Married 15 yrs W left for 6 months in 2009 W Filed for D 01/03/11 piecing now...
Im sure everyone had read my stich. I recently heard from one of my wifes friends that she wants me to find another women. Are these words true or what does she really mean by them.
It doesn't matter what she means or what she says.
The only question you should be asking yourself is why do you want to be with a person who does not want to be with you.
Well I find knittedscarff's post a little outta place here.
We are all on these boards because that is what we are dealing with. WAS who have or are walking. We are here to support each other and figure out what we can do to get out M's back. We wouldn't be here if it was a piece of cake.
John170, do what you want. The fact that your W says she wants you to find another woman is irrelavent.
Me:35, 2 kids from PR H: 37, 2 kids with me T: 15 years M: 8 years in Feb. Second walk out: 14-01-2011 H had PA: 2007
I remember when Ms. Scarff started on the boards. We tried to talk her out of her point of view, and stood up strongly for what she believed in. And she lives her belief system. She earned my respect and a lot of other people's respect too. I think she brings another point of view to the board.
