any experiences out there like mine?

[AJM80]

I'm looking for threads with husband having EA, moving out. Very young children, little bit of quarter life crisis. would love to find someone who's in the process of reconciling or maybe back together. I've got the whole story in another thread, if you'd like to read/comment. But I'm also looking for some suggested threads to read for support/advice/hope/etc.

Thanks in advance

[KarenR]

Hi, sorry you are going thru a hard time. If you haven't talked to a coach yet, I suggest you do asap. They are experts in giving you the support, advice and hope that you can use to change your interactions with your husband. I see it all the time...when one person does thing differently...they get their spouses attention:)in a positive way. I would look forward to talking to you.

[2stepboogie]

There is a piecing section.

I suggest you start there

[Teratosa]

Hi,

I don't post much, I just read the posts. But, I am going through something similar with my husband. He had a rough time turning 30, and left me while I was pregnant with our second child. Its taken two years, but he is finally waking up and wants to come home.

Maybe we can chat.

[AJM80]

Thanks Karen - I've spoken to Chuck a few times and it was absolutely very helpful. In the beginning, the book and those calls kept me from being angry and inflammatory/escalating things. Especially when my husband moved out and I found out he was still seeing OW. Now I am trying to figure out where to go with my life. I'm letting him have time to miss us while I enjoy life . Started the kids in classes at the Y, did a bucket list, spending time with friends and family, taking road trips, etc.

[AJM80]

Tera, You're amazing - I've been glad I didn't find out until after I had the baby, although it's still been brutal. I'd love to talk.