This is our 2nd marriage for both of us. Been together since 2002. Married in 2004.
Together we have 7 kids. Still have one at home.
Due to the job market I started a new career in 2004 after being in IT for over after 23 plus yrs. Been a struggle financially. New career is starting to gain traction.
Have dealt with the normal blended family issues, kids and money, philosophical differences.
We both work. She was a correctional officer in a womens prison for over 15 years... Not a fun job... Was very draining. Now and admin...
Finances/Budget has always been a struggle for her. Not real good with money. Very impulsive.
W recently diagnosed bipolar.
W is obsessed with computer games.
Have had a feeling that W was having affairs online. Confirmed this weekend. W left the computer for me to do some work on. Kept herself logged on to facebook. Not sure if it was intentional or not. Not sure how long this has been going on. If I where to guess probably at least a year now. Looks like she has been seeing several people.
She is very protective of her cell phone. Says that is none of my business what she does or who she texts. Also very protective or secretive on what she does on the computer.
Has been driving me crazy...
She is seeing a therapists. Not sure what she is telling the Therapists. Doesn't want me to go. W says it is private.
Really want her back...
She is my my best friend...
I am in this for the long haul...
I am looking for all the support and advise I can get right now...
See passes it off as it is nothing... Giving W every opportunity to be upfront with me... No dice at this point.
W took her whole situation to a new level last night. W and 17 yr old Daughter got into a huge shouting match... That is a whole situation itself with daughter...
W threaten and started at least the attempt of suicide... 17 yr old daughter called 911...
W in a facility right now... think under the 72 hour watch deal...
