Having been in a SSM and coming out of it, I was wondering about any Valentine's Day suggestions that wouldn't put too much "pressure" on my wife.
I am thinking flowers at work, she has liked that in the past.
Long ago, I tried the Lingerie, and that was a relationship mistake. My wife is working out and loosing weight so chocolates are not appreciated.
We have gone out to dinner in the past, but she typically hates going out on nights where things are crowded and usually Valentines day dinner would be crowded. I already do the dishes after dinner, and share in chores around the house.
Again, any super suggestions would be appreciated for something different.
Thanks!
>43 years of marriage--My wife and I are now closer than we have been in decades. I believe that my SSM is over.
back rubs? draw a bath for her, light some candles and let her have some alone time - she may surprise you and invite you in. write her a note or a poem
not anything ground breaking but they're all things my W likes.
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE
I went old school....flowers, including some of her favorites that were in her wedding bouquet....bottle of great Spanish wine, from a region we visited and where she had a great time on a vacation,....some nice chocolates, but not many as she is concerned about her weight.
The sex was great!
My alternate would have been coupons for foot massages and/or a commercial massage/spa day, but all is well.
I think that I need to do flowers more often.
>43 years of marriage--My wife and I are now closer than we have been in decades. I believe that my SSM is over.
