Hi ZG, Yeah, I get this treatment too. Although, this time I have been blocked since September.
Peace and blessings backatcha.
I just don't get it - What's the point in doing that? I mean is it suppossed to be some kind of punishment for us?
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
HI ZG, I don't know? Control? I guess with both of us needing to go "dark" with our current SITCH its better we don't have them as FB friends. Ya know?
HRT - I think you have a very valid point. It is ALL about control at least in my sitch. Controlling FB, controlling leaving, controlling communication, controlling the D. It's a total power trip in their heads. Little do they know how NOT in control they truly are and how messed up they are making their lives.
Karma is a B****. There will be regret on my H's part someday. I'm just looking for a reconnection at this juncture - that has to come before a reconnection. But for now, going dark is the better thing for both of us or at least I think so. He did tell me that we have to learn how to live our lives w/o each other.
He knows the door is open; I've said it enough times. Now I just have to have my actions support my words and that starts with continuing to focus on me.
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
Getting ready to watch the Eagles game here, so I don't have long. Just wanted to say that I have to admit I got a laugh about your karma comment. I told W the EXACT samething.
Seems like alot of us are truely on very similar paths. Not saying thats a good thing. Well, like we have said before, its comforting knowing others are in similar situations.
